Why can’t men take rejection?

on Jul 05, 2013 , 05:54 pm
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I just don’t understand why men find it tough to get over a break up. One of my friends is struggling to handle her ‘insane’ boyfriend. Their relationship is over, but the man is not ready to accept the fact that it’s over and thinks she has dumped him, which has hurt his ego. He has been stalking her ever since. What should she do? 

Arorav
It is all relative to the fact how much bf loves his gf and the reason of the girl to break up. Even girls can't accept rejection when their heart is all for that man. So rejection of any person deeply and sincerely in love is difficult to accept and bound to cause some depression.
on Jul 13, 2013 , 05:54 pm
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Sekar Raghavan Nair
It is very easy for a woman to find someone,,,but men has to work hard at it,,,
on Jul 13, 2013 , 05:37 pm
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Shashikanth Balepura
Normally in a breakup it is not one sided, it will be two sided, there would have been mistakes from both the sides, apart from external influences like parents, relatives, all that is needed is sit with him, say sorry for her mistakes, get a sorry for his mistakes and explain the actual reason for breakup, not give some silly reasons just for the heck of it. Many a times, not saying sorry itself is a problem, as the ego is getting hurt, but if the sorry is not expresses, troubles will continue, at the same time, make sure no wrong means of trying to solve, bring some relatives to trash him, give a police complaint and put him in lock up for a day and then take the case back, it will become further horrible for either of them.
on Jul 13, 2013 , 03:02 pm
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Mahadev Parmekar
Inability to give up on a relationship is problem with both sexes. There are cases reported of false rape charges on a man who 'allegedgly promised marriage' almost everyday in newspapers. Unfortunately guys cant do that(biased law u can say). I agree with others here that talking it out is the best solution. Involve elders if needed too. People are too shy to involve their adults in love affairs which also a reason for many crimes related to such affairs.
on Jul 13, 2013 , 12:53 pm
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A V Subramanya
When we recruit new staff, we put them on six months probation and subject to satisfactory performance, we confirm them. But there is nothing like probation in love affairs. Men and women have the right to break a relation if they think that the relation may not work in future. One has to accept this. If you feel that there may be some danger from him, better lodge as police complaint.
on Jul 13, 2013 , 11:42 am
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Teena Sharma
Females just need care affection love to choose a guy and if going gets tough its easy for gals to move on but guys r very clear n rigid about their choices and male egos r high, so cant let their gal go so easily...she shud try to talk to him politely and make him understand she is not happy in relationship and the reason for unhappiness,may be it can work..
on Jul 07, 2013 , 02:52 pm
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Shiv Pandey replies to Teena Sharma
First of all “Behaving Like Baby” is not always a men’s call, anyone can do that (just happened with my cousin (male) recently), I agreed with Teena that talk is a great solution with emotionally hurt people. Only caution I suggest that “Talk only if he is mature enough to understand” and must do it in front of common friends of both side (if possible). My cousin did the same way to close this chapter. Otherwise must report this to responsible people like your and his parents to avoid any un-pleasant surprise which is happening more often these days by many mentally sick people
on Jul 11, 2013 , 12:57 am
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Neha Singh
I feel this also; it's very hard for men to accept a no, and it can get very ugly, bt she can just assume getting off the mainstream for a while, bec men will not like someone who is not in demand..She can also just stay away from him as much as possible, bt she shouldn't date someone else bec he will be hurt more..Maybe she can talk to him and say that it's that she wants to hurt him, but that they have to separate..
on Jul 05, 2013 , 06:12 pm
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James Bond replies to Neha Singh
you this also......., plssss stop kidding hahahahahahahahahaha.......,
on Jul 13, 2013 , 10:41 am
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Neha Singh replies to James Bond
Pl don't write on my comments ur wierdo ...U think ur James Bond; just shows how much IQ u have..
on Jul 13, 2013 , 02:33 pm
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