Suicide just for a man???

on Jun 11, 2013 , 09:52 am
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I was shocked to read actress Jiah Khan's suicide note where she had clearly mentioned that she killed herself because she wasn't happy in her love relationship with Suraj Pancholi.

I don't understand how can a girl end her life just because a guy cheated on her and didn't love her the way she did. First of all, you can't depend on someone else for your happiness - it's a dangerous obsession. And secondly, if he doesn't reciprocate to your love feelings, commuting suicide is no option. What do you think?

Samaresh Kar
non sense
on Jul 17, 2013 , 05:23 pm
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Lovely Puja
Jiah ko aisa nai karna chahiye tha.Pyar me dhoka pakar aise apni jindgi ko khatam nai karna chahiye tha use.use ek bar suraj se bat karni chahiye thi,realation ko thoda aur time dena chahiye tha use..
on Jun 12, 2013 , 11:55 am
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Saurabh Singh
Jab mann udas ho kuch accha na lage khud ko depression mein paao toh kahin ghoomne chale jaao , drink karo smoking karo n apni frustration apne best friends ya family ko dikhao they will understand n they will surely take u out from this kind of situation all u need to do is some time to ur precious life........ :)
on Jun 12, 2013 , 09:52 am
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TwoGboros Sonia
suicide is a sickness of mind
on Jun 12, 2013 , 07:57 am
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Shiv Pandey
Unfortunately depression and mental stress is still not taken seriously in India. I assume there is a big communication disconnection in Jia’s case which played a major role. Whatever is happening between her and Suraj, Rabia (her mother) needs to establish strong communication with her during this phase of her life. Depression, sadness, anxiety could be some deficiency which can be cured by medication, but strong communication, motivation, encouragement is equally needed in this situation. Emotional Setback is biggest reason for anyone to shatter his/her confidence and that’s the place family is needed to support which is totally missing in this situation?
on Jun 11, 2013 , 08:18 pm
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Veera Dsilva
No man is worth it if he doesn't reciprocate your love, and more so if he is a scum bag who uses and abuses.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 07:29 pm
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Rv Anturkar
was it one sided love then need such girl councelling
on Jun 11, 2013 , 07:06 pm
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Neha Singh
I believe that men can be really ruthless when it comes to a partner for them..Jiah was not getting any roles, so Suraj really must have made her look down..All men expect very high levels from their partner, and if the partner fails, then there is no love left..I would request men to possess a practical attitude and not luk for perfection in their women; they should also not compare them to others, but I am fully aware tht this is 2 much to ask for..
on Jun 11, 2013 , 05:17 pm
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Monika Rawal replies to Neha Singh
How can Suraj Pancholi make Jiah look down upon herself, he himself was work-less, his career hasn't even started. Jiah's career was still better off.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 05:39 pm
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Neha Singh replies to Monika Rawal
Maybe u have contrary reports, but I read an article that said that Jiah was going down South to get roles and that she was not getting any roles even there, only item numbers..
on Jul 17, 2013 , 09:24 pm
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Shiv Pandey replies to Monika Rawal
Payal, I guess every woman expect at least honesty and ownership in relationship which was totally missing with Suraj. If you are not serious about your relation, you shouldn’t go far (till abortion). Hope you know in modern world of casual relationship reaching abortion level is not mistake, it’s deepness of emotion. You can’t just disconnect by sending “Breakup Bouquet” if someone has reached so far.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 08:30 pm
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Shiv Pandey replies to Monika Rawal
Payal, I guess every woman expect at least honesty and ownership in relationship which was totally missing with Suraj. If you are not serious about your relation, you should go far (till abortion). Hope you know in modern world of casual relationship reaching abortion level is not mistake, it’s deepness of emotion. You can’t just disconnect by sending “Breakup Bouquet” if someone has reached so far.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 08:29 pm
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Neha Singh replies to Monika Rawal
No, Suraj had got work, unlike Jiah who was without work for 6 yrs and had gone down South for work..
on Jun 11, 2013 , 07:11 pm
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Nisha Dev
Yea, it is very wrong to commit suicide for a man or woman or for that matter for anything. Live life to the fullest, this world is very beautiful, with plenty of wonderful people around you. Love nature, observe it and you will never feel let down. If winter is here, can spring be far behind? Think of the seasons, summer, rain, winter and then spring. Nothing stands still, everything changes in this world and why should relationships not change? If you love someone just because you want him or her to love you back, then what sort of love is it? If you love unconditionally without expecting anything in return, only then you will be happy. Be spiritual, love God, love a cause, love people in general and you will be happy. If you have expectations from some one, then surely you will be disappointed. I think we should have a special classes in schools and colleges on spirituality (not religion) Even at home, parents should encourage children to be spiritual - meaning, all of us are a part of a whole. All of us have a soul or atma that is part of God or paramaatma and the soul or God never dies, It lives for ever. Life is a continuous celebration- Some one dies- the soul or atma leaves the body and enters another body and its a continuous process. If you think that then you will never be unhappy even for a second.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 04:19 pm
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Anushri Khardikar
It hurts, when you give yourself completely to someone & he instead of loving her begins to exploit her it hurts badly. The pain is enormous as good as somebody physically stabbing you. I can understand her pain because I have gone through the same.. but I chose to file an FIR against my cheating husband rather than killing myself for him. But there is no assurance of getting justice in India.
on Jun 11, 2013 , 04:07 pm
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Harpreet Kaur replies to Anushri Khardikar
No man in this world is worth giving up your life for
on Jun 11, 2013 , 05:44 pm
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