'Staying silent in front of wife is the key to happy marriage'

on Jul 11, 2014 , 12:06 pm
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My friends often discuss that if you want to have a happy married life, it is better to stay silent in front of your wife and not have any sort of argument. Apparently, most men feel that there is no point saying anything to the female partner because no matter what, she would never agree with you and have a counterpoint for everything you say, so it's rather better to stay silent and let peace prevail.

Do you think this is true? Can staying silent in front of the wife all the time avoid complications in marriage and lead to happiness? Share your opinion.
Manishbansal Manishbansal
wrong
on Jul 22, 2014 , 03:50 pm
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Benno Sims
:)
on Jul 16, 2014 , 10:38 am
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Benno Sims
:) thats good thing sometimes but only do what you want :)
on Jul 16, 2014 , 10:37 am
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Ghost Writer
Silent hubby is a doormat husband who has no opinion of his own but only listens to his wife's opinions even if they are wrong. Happily married couples do have differences of opinions and even healthy fights. But they respect their differences of opinion and come to an understanding.They complement each other instead of the husband just obeying everything the wife says.
on Jul 14, 2014 , 03:18 am
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Mera Desh
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on Jul 14, 2014 , 12:00 am
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Krishnan Sankaran
Though SILENCE is golden one should know when to be silent and when to talk or express your point of view and also if they had mutual understanding , it is the key for Happy Marriage for ever.
on Jul 13, 2014 , 06:46 pm
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Raja Malan
It is not about silence to lead happy married life. When two person are married with different upbringing, value, culture, faith, education, work experience and needs, difference of opinion is bound to be there. Art of happy married life how you value opinion of your partner and how you present your opinion, how you reach consensus. Your body language, tone of voice and surrounding is vital to type of reaction you will get from partner. As human being we have bad habit to poke our nose in everything thing, make unwanted comments or sarcasm we need to be slient for this attitude. In marriage give more and more sexual pleasure to your partner rather then extracting. In marriage learn to forgive mistakes of other partner. In marriage learn to become strength of other partner. In marriage stop to find perfection in other partner. In marriage learn to sacrifice your intents, emotions and ego. In marraige learn to forget "I" and "You". thats roit of quarrels. In marraige "We" is most important. Do not run your marriage like you run or behave in office or work place.Your partner is not your subordinate to receive your order or directives. Two persons when get married they have common needs, they are confident but inexperience. Be open to unlearn your ways and be open to learn together new ways. Marriage is not sucessful by showering expensive gifts or your being rich or your intelligence. Marriage needs your gentleness, kindness, compassion, respect and forgiveness. Do not try to pull down your partner in person or in public. Do not use physical or verbal abuse in marriage. Develop technique to relief your anger at give situation, and discuss your opinion when situatikn is calm. I have been married for 28 years, never had quarrel, of course we have different opinions but we share and do what is good for us as family. We have committed mistakes everyday during this journey but we forgive and donot repeat.
on Jul 13, 2014 , 04:27 pm
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Saurabh Shukla
very good
on Jul 13, 2014 , 10:33 am
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Nirav Patel
hahhaha.. good
on Jul 12, 2014 , 02:01 am
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Raju Jaina
nice
on Jul 12, 2014 , 12:12 am
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