'Sex during pregnancy safe?'

on Jul 26, 2013 , 01:37 pm
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I am 4 months pregnant and scared of having sex with my husband. I know I might be stupid to think that sex is not safe during pregnancy, but I am just very scared. Now the problem is that my husband has not had sex ever since I got pregnant and he wants me to give in to his demands.

As a wife, I too feel it is my duty to fulfill his needs but what should I do to curb my fears.?

Is it safe to indulge in sex when you're pregnant?

Ramesh Gaur
I think it perfectly normal and if u take couple of precautions like suitable position both of u will be able to enjoy a good sex. This I am saying from my experience.
on Aug 05, 2013 , 02:05 pm
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Mike Roger
Studies has confirmed that having sex even just hours before delivering the baby is the best for the mother because the whole body relaxes via this good feeling. Also there's a chemical called prostaglandin in the sperm which naturally relaxes the mother. Let me clarify that synthetic prostaglandin is used for chemical induction. so yes, sex will not harm you in any way during your pregnancy period. On the contrary, it'll relax you a lot. So there's nothing wrong with your husband having lustful desires. On the contrary, you should also look forward for a comfy time with your hubby and see the changes in your overall mental health especially during these times when you are pregnant. Of course, logic and common sense says that there shouldn't be any pressure on the stomach, hence you can try any positions apart from the missionary position and lying on the stomach. Before I close my comments, let me state that it's a great erotic feeling to have sex with your pregnant spouse. Ask me, I was one of them and my wife and me still have beautiful memories of those times.
on Jul 31, 2013 , 02:14 am
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Jacob Benjamin
hello, the question to your hubby is whether your baby is more important or his lustful desires... i have seen hubbies loving the unborn kid, desiring that his son or daughter be out soon in this world.... and also seen hubbies who just want sex, even infront of their kids... so check, which category do your hubby fall in... if you dont give him, he will search outside.. so better talk to him and understand his seriousness on the subject... having sex is nothing unsafe, provided you dont get involved in hard sex or vigorous sex. you should sleep down and tell your hubby to take the pain and effort to help himself and his lusts.... its a question of a child+ur health VS your hubby's lust... if required, take him to ur gynac and discuss this with a professional.. best of luck
on Jul 29, 2013 , 07:45 pm
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Nandu Prasad
of course its safe to have sex but be patient and have safe positions and enjoy.
on Jul 29, 2013 , 07:41 pm
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Subrahmanya Bhat
Your sexual practices during pregnancy will depend on several factors: Your previous beliefs about sex , Your Partner's previous beliefs ,Physical aspects of your pregnancy , Emotional aspects of your pregnancy There are many positions that are more comfortable. These include: Woman on top , Man behind woman, rear entry), Hands and Knees Side lying, knee pulled up The only real difference now is in the position! We've had to accommodate for a growing belly, and as a result we've had to explore a little. It is better to consult your gynac before you have sex during pregnancy. The Gynac knows better of the health of the mother and fetus. Whatever the case, please avoid deep penetrative and vigorous sex during the pregnancy to avoid miscarriage.
on Jul 28, 2013 , 10:42 pm
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Kiran Rao
of course its safe to have sex upto 8 months but be patient and have safe positions and enjoy.
on Jul 28, 2013 , 05:35 pm
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Nandu Prasad replies to Kiran Rao
how u know till 8 months is safe
on Jul 29, 2013 , 07:43 pm
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Shiv Pandey replies to Kiran Rao
it's not about safety, it's about ownership. Being mature adult you should know how to control your desires when needed. Are you welcoming your baby or only care about your personal desires, that's the point. Doctor do advice safe but precaution. My question is "why do you something which needed precautions against your precious one".
on Jul 28, 2013 , 06:02 pm
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Syed Mazher Mohiuddin
Safe till last moment unless you have pregnancy related problems...
on Jul 28, 2013 , 04:50 pm
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William Dsouza
It is better to consult the doctor who will ally your fear. What I read is that you should not go for hard move. Should avoid stomach area. Be gentle. But it is better to see the doc.
on Jul 28, 2013 , 04:45 pm
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Abhishek Banerjee
You can pleasure each other without inter****se. U guys can have o***sex. U can give blow**b or hand**b. This can help. Also I have read many articles around sex during pregnancy and all mentioned its totally safe. these articles written by Doctors. Final call is urs.
on Jul 28, 2013 , 12:47 pm
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Anup Mathew
Every man who thinks he has a big dick that will affect the child or the mother is highly mistaken and shouldnt flatter himself. Docs encourage having sex during pregnancy as it also helps in dialating the cervix which helps natural delivery. To all the stupid fundamentalists and idiots who have ignored or escaped science, I sympathize with those...Ignorrance is no longer bliss but mere stupidity.
on Jul 28, 2013 , 12:44 pm
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