'Parents forcing me to marry an old man'

on Feb 15, 2013 , 10:51 am
I am 25 and my parents are forcing me to get married to a 39-year-old just because he is rich and the only son in the family. I can't spoil my life just for money. I need an understanding partner not a filthy rich old man. I don't know how to stop my parents. They are not listening to anything. Should I run away? Pls suggest me what to do. I'm really worried.
Akshya Singh
Same condition is with my girlfriend, Her parents are forcing her to marry a 10 year old guy. For her parents she decided to marry him, But why the parents are forcing their girl to sleep with other guy who is innocent and don't know about her past. Now my girlfriend is also ready just because he is a manager. hahahahaha Bullshitt. Strange thing is that this is a rape to that poor guy her parents not only hurt him and also his family by hiding their daughter's truth. Why girls do such things.
on Mar 05, 2013 , 03:46 pm
Aashique Yashvardhann
Never marry a person whose age difference with you is more than 5 years.you are a young pretty woman and he is a 39 year old man.definitely he will try to dominate you with his actions and thoughts.this is happening in my family.u will be definitely disturbed by this relationship by mentally,physically, sexually and physiologically.your parents are thinking of money and not about you.stand firm on your legs and be adamant that u will not marry him.
on Feb 25, 2013 , 10:04 am
Sure Chanti
firstly ur r trying to convince ur parents mostly other wise ur opinion tell to who ever want marry u(39 year's) his self also not accepted,then his self also not listen then u take ur close frnds opinions....
on Feb 21, 2013 , 10:42 am
Vikas Verma
7-8 year gap kush jayada nahi ha agar aapko lagata ha ki aap adjust kar sakti ho to to aapko maan lena chaye life ko aage badne k liye payar b hona jaruri ha aapas me paise hi sab kush nahi ha sab soch samaj lo thoda time le k dekho ek decision aage kei logo ki life barbad karega fir koi kush nahi sakta thoda akale me soch kar apne man me jo ha bo hi kare mane b aisi galti ki thi jo aaj tak pasta raha hu or me kush kar b nahi sakta tab family k b haath me kush nahi hota
on Feb 16, 2013 , 10:17 am
Abhinav Arora
only one question: Do u think ur parents are foolish ? I mean there must be some other reason also if they are willing to get u married to someone 14 yrs elder to u. Money cannot be the only reason. After all they are not getting the money. You will.
on Feb 16, 2013 , 10:10 am
Chandan Seernani
Oh! stop this nonsense about your parents are forcing you. You are acting as if you are a victim. For God's sake at the age of 25, you are a grown-up physically, mentally and legally. Make your wishes known and stay firm. A 14 year age difference is a big difference. I have seen several marriages with that kind of age difference fail. In one case after the couple had 2 kids. Don't make the mistake. Find yourself a younger guy and marry him.
on Feb 16, 2013 , 01:08 am
B Patel
I don't think 39 is too old and 14 yrs is not a BIG difference. You need to be mentally and physical compatible.
on Feb 16, 2013 , 12:54 am
Anup Deshmukh
If they force you , you can always go to cops
on Feb 15, 2013 , 11:50 pm
Vivekanand Aarya
you could run away..where ll u go..but there is a thing police or could take help of many ngo which tend to protect womans rights..if u earn little welldan u can afford a marrige of own u could find many on matrimonials...but never an arrange marrige with such age difference.
on Feb 15, 2013 , 11:14 pm
A V Subramanya
Most men have replied that 39 is not too old to get married. Yes, it is not too old and even at 63 also men marry. Here the question is the age difference between the partners. The girl is 25, 14 years younger than the groom. She is mentally not prepared. She also has her feelings and desires. The parents should not force her to marry the person if she feels that she will not be comfortable to live as his wife.
on Feb 15, 2013 , 09:17 pm
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