Okay to marry a co-worker?

on Oct 07, 2013 , 11:14 am
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I am in love with a colleague of mine, though he works in a different department but he is at a lower designation than me. I am not sure how would it be to have your husband working in the same office as yours.

While my family has no problems with it but my friends are saying it's not a great idea to marry a co-worker and it may lead to lot of confusion and issues at a later stage. Pls advice what should I do. Is it okay for me to just ignore what others are saying and marry this guy or should I give it more thought?
Kruthika Nilkund
There is nothing wrong in marrying a co-worker.But,you need to take many issues which may prop up later into your marital life in consideration.Would he take the fact that you are in a better designation than him happily or is he that male chauvinist who doesn't like the fact that a woman,especially his wife earns more than him.In today's 21st century where the woman earns as much as the man or more,ego issues have led to high divorce rates.So,do not take any decisions hastily.
on Oct 09, 2013 , 11:07 am
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Arorav
You marry someone who you love. The status of that person is not as important as your love. Your friends may have had some bad experience or instances to narrate, but it is you who is going to marry and it is you who has to be surer that sure that the guy you want to marry is out of love and not infatuation or crush which is quite possible being in the same environment and being close in day to day life.
on Oct 08, 2013 , 07:23 pm
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Krishpar04
It is not about co-worker it is about the position since he holds lower designation than you if he is working in some other company still then it is ok but not within same company
on Oct 08, 2013 , 06:57 pm
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Indra Bisht
Yes, it is oky, nothing wrong in this. instead of ignoring your co-worker, ignore those people who say it is not good to marry a co-worker.if you are truly in love then go ahead..
on Oct 08, 2013 , 11:43 am
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Sudish Kumar
take your own decision.. do not consult with any one..
on Oct 08, 2013 , 11:42 am
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Kiran Kumar
This is one question which you & your boyfriend must be answering after discussing it amoung yourselves. No one else's opnion matters.
on Oct 08, 2013 , 08:57 am
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Manishkumar Kishore Singh
first, you shud decide what u wanna do with your life. second, everything depends on relationship status of u both, that how much time you had spent with each other thus, by this you will stuck with an idea, what you have done, what you need OR what is still missing that you think he/she should be there with in future. third, all depends on the compromises, what you do for each other. As, i know, myself. fourth, dont think much, if your first and second thing are alright in your mind. If still there is some problem or any thing thing missing then go with third option
on Oct 08, 2013 , 04:06 am
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Nishith Shah
Yes
on Oct 08, 2013 , 03:09 am
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Khandrika Siva Pavan Kumar
I don't think it is going to be any problem as far as, you guys don't get disturbed of your work that frequently which your bosses may not like too much.
on Oct 08, 2013 , 02:34 am
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Shashikanth Balepura
There is no problem in marrying a colleague as long as it is love and no problem with either families, looks like you are personally confused rather than your friends saying it, as the very first thinking which has come to you is designation between both of you. If u truly love him, why are you behind this non sense of lower designation than you. Remove this thinking, if he is the right person, then get settled, otherwise do not mess it up. Secondly is he also interested in you, as nothing is said about his liking.
on Oct 07, 2013 , 11:26 pm
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