Is premarital sex 'immoral'?

on Jan 06, 2014 , 12:27 pm
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According to a Delhi court, premarital sex is immoral and no religion permits it. I somehow don't agree with this. I think it's completely an individual choice if someone wants to indulge in sex before marriage and there's nothing wrong or unethical or immoral about it.

Also, I don't understand why do we need permission from any religion to enjoy sex? It's a natural phenomenon and before marriage or after it, how does it even make a difference. What's your take on this?
Vinay Srivastava
When one make love making ,they do not think so it is advised not to be in lonely places,even if one r talk healthy topics,sit distance but it is not possible,when+ )ve)&-ve will be come nearer there will be some thing.Therefore practically it is imposible,therotically possible.'BETTER TO MARRY THEN MAKE RELATION.
on Feb 26, 2014 , 08:30 am
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Shivanand Patil
Agreed, it is up to the individuals to choose what's good for them. But many a times, sex before marriage can wreck havoc in a person's life if the partner refuses to marry him/her. The person becomes psychologically disturbed. Hence it is recommended and NOT MANDATORY that sex should be avoided before marriage.
on Jan 08, 2014 , 08:50 am
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Vikram B
you must have as many encounters as possible before marriage, so you know what the girl or boy is capable off... in married life sex is a major part you know!
on Jan 07, 2014 , 11:08 pm
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Prasad Balkundi
I am totally against this verdict. Premarital or Post marital sex are totally individual choices. Both the partners are adults and educated. Proper safety measures are the crux of Premarital sex. Condoms keep u away from Sexually Terminated Diseases.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 10:58 pm
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Jp
Delhi court is immoral. Morals are not subject to judiciary. Two adults can have sex anywhere, anytime they choose. Judiciary can only play games with consequences of the adult choices, like child birth, pregnancy termination etc. And for heaven sake, do not bring religion in to this.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 08:25 pm
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Gigy N/a replies to Jp
You seem to have a flawed moral compass
on Jan 08, 2014 , 06:39 am
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Gigy N/a
If you practice premarital sex, please go ahead and do it. Seems your conscience is pricking and you want to get a sanction from a public forum for your immoral acts. Nobody is stopping you.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 06:53 pm
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Arorav
"Sex before marriage and there's nothing wrong or unethical or immoral about it. It's a natural phenomenon and before marriage or after it, how does it even make a difference" such thoughts are making the marriage institutions loose its lustre and permissive society. Which in the long run may prove to be damaging to future relationships.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 06:23 pm
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M Irfan
The writer says "if someone wants to indulge in sex before marriage and there's nothing wrong or unethical or immoral about it" Fine...its not wrong if you are honest enough to declare before your partner about your sex life.Whether he/she is fine with it or Not is their prerogative , but, if you lie in case he/she asks or do not declare because you do not know how he/she will react means you know in your heart that there is something immoral about the act. It's a natural phenomenon and before marriage or after it, how does it even make a difference. The difference here is that we are human beings with ability to think. That way even those who go on to rape say they felt the urge or were tempted , that too is a natural phenomenon, but to control our desires is what makes a human superior from animals.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 05:47 pm
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L. N. Subramanian Mani
Leave alone about having premarital sex with a women before the marriage, it's a sin to itself whether it's with ones consent also. If a person is indulge in such an act just to have the pleasure of sleeping with a women, is very unjust on the part of the person. Even if the women who wish to have sex before the marriage, first she should think all the pros and cons of it how it'll affect her life in the long run if the person refuses to marry her in good faith the women will become like a dried leaf. Secondly, having premarital as per hindu mythology is not permissible for custom/culture and what the people have been taught by their elders goes into the system, hence indulging in such act in nothing less than a crime to itself. Religion has all it's say in it, and at the same time people should also know their responsibility and ethics in life is the need of the hour. If any person, HE / SHE having such a thing in mind, should remove it for good get married and have all the fund of the married life for all better.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 03:56 pm
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Thomaskcc
religious point of view this is wrong..and it is adultery when he/she gets involved with multiple partners...fact of premarital sex got common due to the influence of cinemas and other obcene contents spread in the market...A change has to be made here..God created sex to be in its RIGHT direction...and not the way perceived.
on Jan 07, 2014 , 02:28 pm
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