I think my daughter is a lesbian

on Feb 01, 2013 , 04:24 pm
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My daughter does not seem to be interested in boys despite her studying in a co ed school. In fact she keeps talking about some girl called Neeti who is always spending time with. I checked her phone and saw she had exchanged romantic messages with her. Is my daughter a lesbian?
Satish Singh
accept it
on Jun 18, 2014 , 11:20 am
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Dr Pravin Jawale
It is a probably natural behavior in adolescent age ...some sort of homosexual desires/behaviors are common for short period during this age group ...and probably it increases if no proper sex education is given .... best way is to take in confidence and counsel about sexuality/normal behaviours etc.
on Feb 06, 2013 , 11:04 am
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Whattodo
There is a possibility that she might be a lesbian or she not that into guys yet... Don't conclude she is a lesbian just coz you saw some romantic messages.. Me and my best friend in college also did that..just for fun and teased our husbands we had an affair with each other..but we are not..and i hated all men universally when i was in college.. Be supportive whatever she is..she is your daughter..
on Feb 04, 2013 , 04:55 am
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VISHAL SHARMA
Possibilities exist for both being lesbian and just being shy of boys / not confident. Hard to just figure out based on the fact that she has a close girl friend. Just keep an open mind.. Be supportive whether a lesbian or lacking confidence..
on Feb 04, 2013 , 12:39 am
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Abduer
If you are sure it is romantic message sent to a girl and not to some guy, whose name is saved in the phone-book in pretext of a girl, you have reason to worry about.
on Feb 03, 2013 , 10:02 pm
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Aggi Soares
sending msgs doent mean lesbian. There are parents whos getting scared if their daughter falls in love with boys they might leave studies and go in a wrong way. You should be happy your daughter is studying and talking about girls it doesnt mean she is lesbian
on Feb 03, 2013 , 08:19 pm
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A V Subramanya
How old she is? If she is an adult and educated, she knows what she is doing. You may convey some subtle messages to her. Some times too much interference is not good. Better give her enough leg space.
on Feb 03, 2013 , 12:32 pm
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Neha Singh
I come from a girl's school, and am absolutely appalled that girls from my school are usually alone or in female pairs..I think if she's just talking about one girl, then she must be. but u can try to talk about boys to her, and make her aware of her sexuality. If she's innocent, she might not even be aware of luv or sex with boys..U can throw a party and try to judge her based on that..
on Feb 01, 2013 , 05:09 pm
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