I caught my husband in a gay club

on Mar 12, 2013 , 04:34 pm
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I was a happily married woman till i found my husband in a gay club kissing another man. Nothing in life prepared me for this.

I am shocked and almost broken. How could he lie to me for so many years? What should i do? Should i commit suicide?


Fauzan Seth
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on Mar 16, 2013 , 02:01 am
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Kshetij Thakker
Has he not taken care of you? Has he not given / provided you what you have asked for? You have mentioned "Nothing in Life Prepares you" Its the other way "Everything in Life Prepares you for next Unknown" that's why we have Future which only we can change it. If you try then Perhaps you can change your hubby and once he is changed "That will be another shock, but this time you'll be prepared for it" Try something good for your family and your self.
on Mar 16, 2013 , 12:18 am
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Sam.k
this is really sad ..im very sorry for u ...hope u will get out of this ...
on Mar 15, 2013 , 08:20 pm
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Arnab
Also if you are happily married - then he is a bi and not a gay. So you should be fine with it.
on Mar 15, 2013 , 07:01 pm
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Arnab
what were you doing in the gay club?
on Mar 15, 2013 , 06:59 pm
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Shree Kp
The easiest thing for you to do is to dump him and move on. But consider this. Will it be so easy? Instead, keep your calm and get him to open up. Remember buddy, we are designed to chide and condemn when exposed to situations such as this one but give him his share of an ear and then take your decision.
on Mar 15, 2013 , 03:38 pm
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Sree Kumar
While I do not know how long you have been married, how old you are, better to leave him. He may convince you now that he will change, but you never know.....
on Mar 15, 2013 , 02:12 pm
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A V Subramanya
It is really unfortunate. You need to talk to him and bring him out of this. There is more severe health risk to you if he is also involved in gay sex and also has unprotected sex with you. Tell your parents about this and they will definitely help you. He has to select one and not both.
on Mar 15, 2013 , 12:08 pm
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Neha Singh
So utterly disturbng. I think u shud becum damn strong n leave him, or u'll be subjct to VDs...
on Mar 12, 2013 , 08:55 pm
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Lavanya Sharma replies to Neha Singh
I am so depressed i think i need to see a therapist.
on Mar 13, 2013 , 12:39 pm
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Neha Singh replies to Lavanya Sharma
Sum ppl r so despo, they will never leave u considering how pathetic they are..So, he might not agree for a divorce..
on Mar 13, 2013 , 10:39 pm
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Gan replies to Neha Singh
since he has not disclosed this to you before marriage, you can easily file for divorce and win the case whether he agrees for it or not.
on Mar 15, 2013 , 03:30 pm
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Neha Singh replies to Gan
It's not so easy to win a case at all. My neighbor who has NEVER won any cse against us won one last year after bribing every one..U hv to also ask for alimony for the wasted yrs with him. GAWD what a piece of dirty shit..
on Mar 15, 2013 , 04:57 pm
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Gan replies to Neha Singh
I am an advocate, so I am confident about this one! I don't know about the details of the case between you and your neighbour, so I can't comment on that.
on Mar 15, 2013 , 08:22 pm
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Neha Singh replies to Lavanya Sharma
Yes, yes, there are counselling therapists n marriage counsellors also..
on Mar 13, 2013 , 10:30 pm
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