Husband jealous of my success

on Oct 03, 2012 , 10:53 am
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I have recently been promoted as the Director of my company and instead of feeling happy for my success, my husband is getting jealous and it’s creating a lot of differences in our relationship. Whatever I do or say, he would taunt me and say something regarding my position at work. He doesn’t like my busy schedules or even my official meetings with top management. I don’t know what to do about this. It is getting too irritating for me. Pls suggest how I should handle this.
Shailendra
First congratulation for being promoted, you got the potential and that is the reason you being promoted. Just relax and calm yourself, think positive and feel good about your self and when ever this happen again try to divert the topic. take this as one of your challenge and you know you can deal with it.best of luck
on Feb 18, 2013 , 09:20 am
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Popescu Emilia
dargostea honest soul comes from within, when two young people know and feel that the attraction is mutual soul are sure to cause connection between the two men before God, this is stupid GURU which has its role in the life of a man
on Feb 06, 2013 , 10:51 pm
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Yuddandi Sivasubramanyam
this is very common. since you are in better understanding position, try to avoid the topics which will irritate you husband, you being a director needs lot of social status, martial weakness will deflate your office status, cope up and ignore your husbands narrow mind.
on Jan 13, 2013 , 12:08 pm
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Ravinder Thakur
Dear Mam,i would suggest that need not to thgink in that way otherwise differences will increase and deteriorate.So suggest you to have patience and try to behave in accordance with your husband and you will feel the change if you love your husband?.
on Dec 30, 2012 , 09:21 pm
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Terra Bites
Plain inferiority complex and insecurity of getting dumped. His behavior is only accelerating a split. Obviously he lacks the maturity to handle your success. Question is whether you have the patience, indeed the maturity to correct it or will you use the behavior of your husband as an excuse to seek someone more level in stature and dump him as he is fearing anywayz.
on Dec 25, 2012 , 04:02 pm
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M K
Hi, I can only suggest you that take some time for yourself, relax, think positively and decide the character of yours and husband, it becomes clear where the fault arised, so. try and make sure that everything goes well.
on Oct 04, 2012 , 10:07 am
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Shivaprakash
dont panic nor listen to the comments given by your co reader. Just relax, try to understand why your husband is behaving like this. is it really a sign of jealousy. it could be that he feels you have not done adequate work to deserve such promotion or maybe you have achieved this promotion through unfair means. have a talk with him , find out what irritates him. you can find hundred of jobs in life but you should understand your life partner and make him understand your feelings and concern. That is more important. Have patience and tackle the problem rather than avoiding it.
on Oct 04, 2012 , 12:45 am
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M K replies to Shivaprakash
It's very easy to give advise isn't it, If you were a women and start having these tortures then only you'll come to know. I curse you with a jealous wife and friend who behaves. I know you rather leave them than tackling with them isn't it???? Ha Ha ha...
on Oct 04, 2012 , 09:48 am
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Neha Singh
Such a goddamn irritating problem. Do you have a better man in mind, just drop this guy, if you need someone. Or else, most geniuses are normally alone..
on Oct 03, 2012 , 11:08 pm
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Zakir Husain
If in your life have too much panic then take one step. Live your husband or live your job. check who is important for your life. <br /> A man have most important duty in his life to care his mother. ( no one else more than that). Woman have most important duty in his life to care her husband (no one else more than that). now ur choice.
on Oct 03, 2012 , 05:45 pm
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M K replies to Zakir Husain
Do you think only man can take care of their mother's, what do you think of a duty-it's divine- not a duty, you people never understand a women, isn't it! If your mum started taking care of your dad and not you kids then will you speak in the same way???? You are sick!
on Oct 04, 2012 , 09:53 am
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A V Subramanya replies to Zakir Husain
You want her to "live" or leave?
on Oct 03, 2012 , 09:55 pm
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Smartak4545
Hey i am your husband , how the hell you gonna discussing our family problems on public block. i will c u today...huh!
on Oct 03, 2012 , 05:11 pm
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M K replies to Smartak4545
It's your inability to tackle/solve this problem in both of you, If she had come out to discuss it's your fault!! Try to understand the situation and behave yourself.
on Oct 04, 2012 , 09:55 am
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