Husband finds me unattractive!

on Jul 02, 2014 , 11:49 am
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It has been about six months that we got married, but still my husband and me haven’t been able to strike a bond with each other. He doesn’t find me attractive. He keeps saying that I don’t know how to dress up and haven’t groomed myself. 


No one apart from him ever said anything like this to me. Sometimes so much criticism really pulls me down and de-motivates me. I am losing confidence. How should I handle it, please suggest.  

Rk S
The real thing us he already had someone in his life
on Jul 16, 2014 , 12:10 am
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Rk S
Try to satisfy or be happy with your husband,but I dont think is trah k husband ko handle karna its not easy but it takes time.actually love is blind love dont see the physical beauty it only see the soul beauty,innocence,trust.thats all.these are all fake excuses
on Jul 16, 2014 , 12:04 am
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Krishnan Sankaran
It is better to satisfy your husband's liking and dress according to his taste. Also find out his tastes, likes and dislikes and act accordingly and if he likes you can go ahead in seducing him for an memorable night and try to satisfy him.
on Jul 15, 2014 , 07:08 pm
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Rajendra Singh
marriages all about a mutual understanding.... You have to talk to your husband ...... share your problem with Him ...
on Jul 15, 2014 , 05:23 pm
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Jagadeesh Gatla
Don't lose confidence and talk to your husband when he free and explain your embarrassment which you are facing with him. Sharing your problem with your husband gives you better solution rather than hiding them.
on Jul 15, 2014 , 04:15 pm
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Jagadeesh Gatla
yes
on Jul 15, 2014 , 04:12 pm
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Krishnasamy Keerthevasan
Talk directly to him and come to a conclusion
on Jul 15, 2014 , 03:38 pm
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Gopiraman Alok
nautanki
on Jul 15, 2014 , 03:31 pm
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Anbeishivam Anbeishivam
Attraction is not just physical, though physical aspects also counts. You need to cook well, dress well, decorate well. Human mind is a complex thing and it is not easy to isolate the reason why he finds you unattractive. Never jump into divorce option.
on Jul 14, 2014 , 12:09 pm
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Anbeishivam Anbeishivam
Madam, there are quite a few things that can turn off a man. You need to isolate the issue. It looks like both of you need counseling from an experienced counselor with a background in psychology. (Probably, a clinical psychologist)
on Jul 14, 2014 , 12:07 pm
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