Husband doesn't want kids.

on Nov 30, 2011 , 11:21 am
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I want to have a baby and my husband doesn't want to have kids. He believes having a baby means more expenses and more responsibilities. I really don't know how to convince him that i am desperate to become a mother. Can anyone pls help me & suggest what should i do now?
John Wiggens
Our marriage hasn't been the greatest from the start, one area where our disagreement is kids. I would like one or two, but my husband just refuses. He won't even consider it, in fact when I mentioned having a baby he made an appointment to get a vasectomy. He just had it done and I had no say in this. It was the meanest thing he could have done.
on Dec 21, 2013 , 11:23 am
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Testfirst Testlast
first u feel free and see the mood of ur hubby and tell what is sweet home and how the home will be with children and one person enter into ur family its is not responsibilty its a bonding between the parents and child. any way he have a responsibility on u know than y he need to feel more responsibility. convience him. if not sit with both side parents and discuss it openly infront of every one .all the best.
on Dec 01, 2011 , 11:53 am
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Ranjeet Kumar
Friends,Same thing is with me,,,,,Smriti ji ne meri wife ke dard ka ahsas karaya.....My wife also wants to be mother...even we fight for this several times....but I earn very less..I can not give good education,etc etc so why to bring my son/daughter on earth , He/She will also abuse me after he/she will be young...can ask..what I HAVE DONE FOR HIM/HER.....guys...I am physically strong..no problem at all....once my wife had miscarraige also...my wife is very emotional after that.
on Dec 01, 2011 , 11:03 am
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Baskar Balakrishnan
Without baby what he can achieve? babies walks speech ,smiles,each and every minute of growing from birth to min 5yrs you can enjoy for that how much resp we should take for that how much hardwork also we can do y u are so much missing not only small u r missing ur life without baby how u can imagine ur life think and proceed
on Dec 01, 2011 , 10:13 am
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Anupreet Khanna
0-2 years of marriage he could be thinking finance, yehi to time hai enjoy karne ka. Beyond that there are other reasons ..........look closely , dig deeper ......................in all likelyhood its the OTHER WOMAN! ..........as kids represent settlement if he is not looking for a permamnent relationship with you he will simply not have kids with you no matter what. I disagree that it is psychological or physicall problem as these are pretty evident and you wouldn't know they exist if you haven't even started trying to have a baby
on Dec 01, 2011 , 10:04 am
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Pramod Kaimal
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on Dec 01, 2011 , 09:52 am
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Pramod Kaimal
In this age one cannot know if Smriti Khanna: is actually a feminine gender wife. If Feminine then, LET us refer to THIS Bharatvarsh Scriptures: IF there is a Vasana (Flavour) that has to gain experience as a CHILD of Mrs & Mr Smriti Khanna: Mr Khanna will get the URGE in his system and Mrs Smriti Khanna: will be receptive: and CONCEPTION will take place at the RIGHT TIME. So advice is to MEET a learned Sage (a very rare phenomenon in this age) and seek advise as to what ritual to follow so that RIGHT conception MAY take place if YOUR Karma so NEEDS to experience. Meet a GOOD (a very very difficult check) astrologer to understand if YOU do have THAT Vasana to experience giving birth to a child or rearing an OWN child
on Dec 01, 2011 , 09:49 am
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Jonathan S Rathnam
I don't understand what kind of a person does not want to become a father? I think the problem is something else with him, and you must try and dig deep to get to the root of it. By what you have written coming to any conclusion is not easy since its only partial information. But I guess the problem with him is more of physiological than anything else. So the best option you have now is to talk this over with him and make him feel relaxed and assure him that all will be well after the baby arrives in this world. More importantly you must be patient and not push it too much or force it on him, else it may backfire and you may never get what you want. So I suggest patient talking will do the trick, just one step at a time. I wish you all the best.
on Dec 01, 2011 , 09:44 am
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Narendra Garg
Dear Smriti,<br /> Keep patience and make your self bold Every thing happens with the time. Convince your husband about the having baby at the right age, if this is the right time, convince him with the fact Any child coming in the world brings his or her own luck. I have seen people dont make up their mind about raising the family, They do it later on late in the life. Kids will be going to the college and old man will be coughing and cursing the kids at the verge of retirement. Ask him to read this email, Probably reading this email will raise his ear and do something about having the baby
on Dec 01, 2011 , 03:44 am
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Mike Tarantulla
Go have a baby with anyone else
on Dec 01, 2011 , 12:18 am
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