'Had one-night stand with a colleague'

on Nov 26, 2013 , 06:21 pm
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It was after an office party that my colleague came to drop me home and I was too drunk. Don't know how in that spur of moment, we ended up having sex. Both of us were not in our senses and didn’t know if it was the right thing to do.

I feel very embarrassed whenever I have to face him at work. I'm scared what if he tells someone about this. What should I do? Should I quit my job or talk to him? Please advice.
Tapish Sen
I think there is nothing to be ashamed off you have not hurt anybody and just had fun. Leave it and think about your life and career. This is your personal life and you should enjoy it.
on Dec 30, 2013 , 01:29 pm
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Ameer Khan
you cheated ur future husband thats it.. poor man
on Dec 01, 2013 , 05:13 pm
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Shashikaanthb.s. Balepura
It has happened without your controls, but looking at the other side, has your office colleague told anybody else also and has anyone made an strange gestures or some ugly remarks about it, if not then he may not be of that type, so it is better have a straightforward discussion with him and explain your stance rather than getting scared and you only openly admit it just because of fear, never assume or presume anything. Make sure you do not indulge into these parties in future where alcohol is served and end up like this. It is easy for us to comment, but not an easy task emotionally for you, the more you get scared, the more it will spoil your personal life, better talk straight and get out of the emotional fear.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 10:41 pm
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Ankur Chaudhary
Just relaxed.Talk to that guy n clear everything with him.If he is a matured guy than he will understand ur feelings n respect them but if not that kind of guy than also make him to understand that everything that happened is by mistake thr was no such intensions.Be confident infront of him so tht he cnt get on u regarding this situation n try to take advantage again.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 08:54 pm
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Surjit Singh Kundan
Just take it in western way, forget what happened and turn to a normal life.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 07:59 pm
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Anjali Baby replies to Surjit Singh Kundan
very right, dont blame western way its all happening here.forget it.
on Dec 08, 2013 , 01:46 pm
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Harjinder Lamba
Correction- please read first line as ' hope it was first time such thing happened'
on Nov 28, 2013 , 06:57 pm
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Harjinder Lamba
Hope it was not the first time such thing happend. Dont understand why you drink beyond limit where u dont have senses what u will end up doing. Whatever has happened has happened and it cant be undone. As for that guy, he will try to create similar situation. Be wary, stop drinking outside your home.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 06:54 pm
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Manish Singal
You are already a spoiled character, drinking & having relation with others !! how you expect a come back to normal life !!! better continue this style till you get hooked to something which destiny has reserved exclusively for you !!!
on Nov 28, 2013 , 06:43 pm
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Zakir Husain
If good guy then marry with him. if not, leave the job. it not possible that he will hide this thing. why u r drinking if not control.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 04:06 pm
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Very Sood
well,it seems, u njoyed the moments.its upto u now to continue or not.there is nothing to feel guilty.at that particular moment u both were consensual n u njoyed too.things shud move,in future,the way u wish or desire.thats all.
on Nov 28, 2013 , 03:44 pm
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