'Found condoms in son's wallet'

on Feb 12, 2013 , 03:05 pm
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Last week while cleaning up my 15-year-old son's room, I was shocked to find a packet of condom in his wallet. I know at such young age, kids read about sex and want to try out thing for fun sake but its not right. I am really worried about him and don't know how to react and handle this. I am too scared to share it with my husband, as he'll get very angry. Please tell me what should I do.
Sachin
Don't. Worry. Its his age to do all that things. And he is using. Safe things while having. Relationship. Don't worry
on Jul 29, 2014 , 10:52 pm
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Manishbansal Manishbansal
its ok,,,, atleast you are sure that he is playing safe,,,, let him live his life
on Jul 22, 2014 , 03:35 pm
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Suresh Nellikode
Talk to him very discreetly. Sometimes it must have been just a fun to show his peers that he's aware of things and not a kid any more. In Western countries it's quite common. Speak to him of the pros and cons, standing in the safer place of a mother who could be of great help to him any time. Do not give an impression that you're nose to tail on his way around. Keep cool. A parent can guide only and not live a son's life. Make him understand that he would be responsible for his life. Do not go negative on this matter, as it's a common instinct of the age. Communicate to him and be free to be contacted always for anything.
on Jul 20, 2014 , 07:45 pm
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Tanmoy Biswas
ma'm he is old enough to handle a condom !!! plz don't see him something hard...I think it will be better to closely talk with him to let him know more... I think you can then find wheather it's just for fun/natural interest or for real use !!! It will drive you to further steps...
on Jul 17, 2014 , 05:56 pm
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Phanindra Papasani
be cool and let him to explore the world
on Jul 14, 2014 , 07:16 pm
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Phanindra Papasani
solution is silence
on Jul 14, 2014 , 07:15 pm
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Phanindra Papasani
just tell him about the teenage problems and how he has to be........
on Jul 14, 2014 , 07:15 pm
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Pankaj Jain
In my opinion, the best solution for this problem is communication. You should discuss this thing clearly but with positive mind. This teenage is very critical to understand the things, what is right or what is wrong.
on Jul 11, 2014 , 05:58 pm
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Tomsan Kattackal
Why would children explore ways of gaining knowledge about sex, if his/her parents made them aware of sex? We are shy and conservative not to talk to our kids about sex. Once true knowledge is denied, kids will seek alternative ways of gaining knowledge and the results won't be acceptable to us. Now it is too late. Let him live his life. He is slightly better than others.
on Jul 09, 2014 , 05:06 pm
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Mera Desh
talk to him clearly before it too late
on Jul 09, 2014 , 01:57 pm
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