'Found condoms in son's wallet'

on Feb 12, 2013 , 03:05 pm
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Last week while cleaning up my 15-year-old son's room, I was shocked to find a packet of condom in his wallet. I know at such young age, kids read about sex and want to try out thing for fun sake but its not right. I am really worried about him and don't know how to react and handle this. I am too scared to share it with my husband, as he'll get very angry. Please tell me what should I do.
Madhu Kumar C
Condoms keeping in pockets will reduce the safety aspect as they might expose to too heat and hence, once used, protection could lead to disaster. In this case, rather than scolding, its better to educate him being a mother to avoid future problems and diseases he might get infected.
on Jun 15, 2013 , 12:20 am
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Pawan Kumar Kaushal
The social sites of internet are filled with such materials, one need not to go anywhere. More over it is the out come of the policies of Liberalization which are spoiling our nation, making the civilised society an un-civilised one.In this era of Globalization,Privatization and Liberalization you can not expect from your child to have book on Morality or Ethics
on Feb 18, 2013 , 10:08 am
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Manish Patil
Though its normal due to his age,but its consequences are bad, bcuz this stuff deviates child from his studies and goals.so wht I feel is, ther shuld be litle fear in his mind saying wht he is doin is wrng (evnthugh, its normal) Just do following trick-Remove condms frm bag and keep a leter ther sayin -"If yr fther had came to know abt this,He would have killed u.I don't want my son should go with this kinda things rathr thn concentrating his studies.I wont b able to save u next time- yr mom''
on Feb 17, 2013 , 11:48 pm
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Popescu Emilia
be the best friend of your son, and I am sure that you will understand each life story
on Feb 17, 2013 , 11:41 pm
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Mg Raj Mohan
DO NOT QUESTION HIM BUT REMOVE THE CONDOM FROM THE BAG ,&UR SON WILLCOME TO KNOW THAT U HAVE COME TO KNOW &TRY TO CHECK THE BAGS OFEN
on Feb 17, 2013 , 09:04 pm
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Vijaykumar Swami
this is the problem of every second home. all parents handle it very carefully. understood first your teenage son and solve the problem
on Feb 17, 2013 , 07:51 pm
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Vijaykumar Swami
this is the problem of every second home. all parents handle it very carefully. understood first your teenage son and solve the problem
on Feb 17, 2013 , 07:51 pm
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Omprakash Kurial
Hi I have seen so many cases like this so that try to teach or take him any spritual center`s` . and try to give him a good spritual knowloge then he may change his emotion by taking this type of action . With love Omi omprakash.kurial@gmail.com
on Feb 17, 2013 , 07:20 pm
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Jeet Endra
So u must be happy in near future he doesnt bring a infant and say mom here is your GRANDSON.........
on Feb 17, 2013 , 06:55 pm
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Nv Raju
As a mother you must advise him. Ofcos boys listen to mothers. Dont tell ur husband becos it will go worse. Also his fear will go if he is aware that parents know about this. So u hv to threaten him every time with u will inform father abt this. Some other time, preach about purity of marriage. When girls accept this in spite of repercussions, then God only can help!!!
on Feb 17, 2013 , 05:49 pm
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