First wedding night is overrated!

on Apr 26, 2013 , 04:59 pm
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I don't get what this whole hype about the first wedding night! It's as if the first night a bride spends with her husband is supposed to be the greatest. Movies show the bride shyly entering the room with a glass of milk for her husband, with a whole bunch of giggling relatives listening outside their bedroom. Then the next morning the bride is asked how her first night as a married woman was. This is such a joke!

Does that even happen in real life? Most people i'm sure are not even virgins when they get married, then why the whole drama of the first wedding night? Do you agree it's just sex at the end of the day?


Afifa Shomail
Get married and than argue on such topic .u talk as over hyper kid. First night is very special. For first anything is special. for eg. ur first job, ur first kiss, ur first salary, ur first life as being married. Until n unless u don't spend 24hrs with anyone u don't know them well. By the way why do u celebrate first child. Its same way.
on Jun 08, 2013 , 05:16 pm
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Rishi Rathore
Rofl
on May 15, 2013 , 02:11 pm
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Achyut Kulkarni
its been in practise since years, some follow it as elders orders, some skip it and sleep as they'll be tired for the whole day standing in marriage hall......LOL......LOL.... ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! ! !
on Apr 29, 2013 , 10:10 am
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Dew
generally in the case of first night bride is nerves .many things she is suffering in first wedding night.when if bride is not virgin.than not any problem.
on Apr 28, 2013 , 11:16 pm
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Kaleem Rao
I like First night
on Apr 28, 2013 , 06:33 pm
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Deven Dias
Who said first night is about s*x. It's always about getting to know each other. Rarely that too if its love marriage, people have sex on that day.
on Apr 28, 2013 , 03:42 pm
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Shashikaanthb.s. Balepura
Basically with your comment, you are openly accepting that the so called virginity is not a big issue at all in today's world, but still today's women expect their husbands to be virgin with their mind, body and soul just to think of their wife only. Also your comment states about the trust factor here, by not being a virgin, yet claiming they are virgins. It is all about acceptance.
on Apr 28, 2013 , 01:31 pm
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Syed Mazher Mohiuddin
It may be just a joke for you and not for real people ..
on Apr 28, 2013 , 01:24 pm
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Azam Sahil
Make the encounter about her pleasure not yours. Get control of yourself and make sure she has her pleasure several times before you worry about yours. Going the extra mile and being unselfish on this night will pay off with huge dividends throughout your marriage.
on Apr 28, 2013 , 11:58 am
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Azam Sahil
A wedding isn't just another party and the wedding night isn't just another sexual encounter. This is the first time you will be together when you truly belong to each other. This is the time to make her feel like a cherished gift from god. She is your treasure and she has made you the greatest gift of her life and her love. Time to impress upon her that you do love her and are grateful for who she is.
on Apr 28, 2013 , 11:56 am
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