Fiance has changed after marriage

on Jun 13, 2012 , 10:08 am
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I have got married through an arranged setup and my husband was always very sweet and respectful before our marriage. But now he has totally changed. He disrespects me and behaves rudely even in front of other people. I feel like this is a different person. What do I do? Leave him?
Pratima Joglekar
Give him a dose of his own medicine. Some people are different before marriage and after. After marriage they might take you for granted. Also in public and private some people might behave different. You can talk to him about it, if he doesn't understand then behave the way he does in public, hopefully he will get the message.
on Jul 16, 2013 , 10:27 am
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Shailendra
dont leave fight with the problem, you are no less than your husband. feel postive about yourself gain confidence about whats good in you and you are not here to be sad get humiliated. talk to your heart and when you will start feeling good better ask what i should do again when same situation arises. to leave is not a problem but again you will be alone and that is a problem, fight with your problem say to yourself everything woukf be fine and have faith in God. Best of Luck
on Feb 18, 2013 , 08:43 am
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Balaji
leave him...
on Jan 21, 2013 , 11:51 am
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Dhruv Biswas
Leave him... as many do, you have judged a book by its cover... never do that...
on Jan 20, 2013 , 01:15 pm
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Mrinali Sharma
yes. in my opinion you should leave him. no guy in this world has right to disrespect you, make you feel terrible or do anything bad to you. its about yourself respect your dignity. respect yourself more than anything. leaving him is the best solution you have :) because trust me such guys never change, no matter how hard you try.
on Jan 19, 2013 , 06:52 pm
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Khan Ghayasuddin Khan
Its a very simple way how a boy friend and a girl friend preset themselves, best in all manner, each of the party expects best after the marriage also but things nose dives after marriage once you start living together and the weeknesses and problems are revaled and exposed in a short while and both the parties are not prepared to accept. You have to continue living with this problem or else divorce.
on Dec 28, 2012 , 03:52 pm
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Sachin Jog
Because there are so many law in favor of female.For them " There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage. "
on Dec 28, 2012 , 10:04 am
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Sachin Jog
" There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic banking. It's called marriage. "
on Dec 28, 2012 , 10:04 am
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Puneet Singh
well neha a alcoholic person nevr stop drink if he his regular drinker its become dificult to quite drinking
on Dec 28, 2012 , 09:47 am
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Joy Tripathi
@Neha: Its clear that your dad was an alcoholic.. don't use his example to judge the world.. circumstances change, times change and so people change
on Dec 24, 2012 , 02:32 pm
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