‘Father-in-law hits on me’

on Nov 15, 2013 , 10:16 am
It has been two years since I got married. The first year of marriage was quite good, but the second year has become quite stressful. Suddenly my father-in-law has started hitting on me. I am feeling really uncomfortable. Can’t even share this with my husband or my mother-in-law. Please suggest what should I do?
Deven Dias
Be a 100% sure, get some evidences before you make your move. I wouldn't be surprised cos now-a-days India is a land where father r*pes his own daughter. Still I would suggest you to be cent percent sure of the allegations you are making.
on Nov 18, 2013 , 11:57 am
Shashikaanthb.s. Balepura
Share it with your husband but with facts like recording a video or a voice recording, otherwise you will look like a fool, without proof do not talk anything, as just talking will not help, your marriage might get on rocks without any mistake of yours.
on Nov 17, 2013 , 10:13 pm
Ashwin Raizada
Patience , you have to be sure 110% about that ,let him make some move ,you should act normal, you should treat him like a father,,,once he crosses line and you have solid proof then you can talk with your husband,,,,half truths ,no proof will destroy your credibility and relationship,you have to be very carefull and smart
on Nov 17, 2013 , 07:31 pm
A V Subramanya
1. Warn him that if he does it again, you will lodge a police complaint. 2. Can you record this secretly with the help of a spy camera? 3. You must take your husband in confidence and inform him. How is the family environment otherwise? Your mother in law and others are good to you? Is there any dowry issue? How is your relation with your husband? Is it love marriage or arranged marriage?
on Nov 17, 2013 , 11:10 am
Aakriti Rana
I agree its a really difficult thing to do but you have to talk about it with your husband.
on Nov 15, 2013 , 11:02 am
Parthasarathy Balasubramanium replies to Aakriti Rana
Share with ur hubby and explain why it has happened.
on Nov 15, 2013 , 06:04 pm
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