Can my sister be a surrogate for us?

on Apr 03, 2013 , 01:43 pm
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I have been trying to conceive for quite some time but there are complications. My husband suggested that we can ask my younger sister (unmarried) to be a surrogate for our baby. I am not too sure if it's okay. Will it lead to any problems later for her - emotionally or physically? Pls advice friends.
Anshul Chalotra
Don not let her life ruin. Adopt a child.
on May 20, 2013 , 10:43 am
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Ganju Patel
Or, you have to investigate if this is a Jija-Saali conspiracy. May be your sister is in it, they both are deceiving you. Or, he might have already made her pregnant and now trying to find his way out. This is a genius thought - think about it.
on May 20, 2013 , 07:47 am
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Ganju Patel
what your husband wants is your sister - don't you get it; ...saali aadhi gharwali! How old is your sister?
on May 20, 2013 , 07:38 am
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Vishwanath Mk
It is not advisable
on May 20, 2013 , 07:26 am
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Krishna Chaitanya
why dont u pple adopt someone.....why spoil ur sis life, ur hubby surely got eye on her
on May 19, 2013 , 11:47 pm
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Etc Chowdhury
personally I think your hubby interest in your sister.either how could he ask this thing..itz really hear to hear why u not take a baby from orphanage.dont be spoil your sister life...
on May 19, 2013 , 11:40 pm
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Shashikaanthb.s. Balepura
It would be wise, if this is done from anybody other than any known family members, as there are many complicated emotional issues which might arise later, she is not married, she becomes a mother, our indian mentality is always worst in thinking, it is not broadminded, in the process, her life may get spoiled.
on May 19, 2013 , 10:11 pm
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Thyaga Rajan
these ?s need to b answered: what is yr age, hv u crossed d fertile age, r yr complications irreversible . if zeroing in to d alternative suggested by u: is yr sister willing ? her affirmative shd b on d basis of her being made to u/stand d repercussions th may ensure. what do +s hv to say on this ? if u, yr hubby n sister much give weightage to fmly members' opinion etc., what is their opinion ? am sure with a cogent answer to d above u shd get out of d tight situation.
on May 19, 2013 , 09:46 pm
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Eric Fernandes
With mutual consent, I don't see why not?
on May 19, 2013 , 04:57 pm
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A V Subramanya
I personally do not agree for this. She will find difficult to get married tomorrow. You have not given sufficient details. What is the exact problem? If your ova is available, then you can opt for IVF and find out any other surrogate mother instead of your unmarried sister. You can take hep of your mother or his mother also. I feel some thing fishy in your husband's proposal.
on May 19, 2013 , 01:21 pm
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