Boyfriend slapped my brother

on Jan 18, 2013 , 02:37 pm
I am dating a guy for last 2 years but my brother doesn't like him and tells me not to hang around with him. Last week, he saw us in a mall and ended up picking up a fight, which turned into an ugly spat and my BF slapped my brother in front of everyone.

Now i am really in a sticky spot because my boyfriend would never apologize to my brother and with such frictions, i can't expect our relationship to continue further. What should i do. pls help me friends!
Kamov Mov
I'm sure your brother must have not told anything provocative and unforgivable. If he has then your BF too may be in a sticky situation for choosing to leaving you and loving you. Men have certain red lines where they can't let their pride fall. But if its a small issue and your BF could have maintained restraint then its not worth it you must walk out of it. As a relationship is not just b/w 2 people but families and if he can't respect your family before marriage then its highly likely that he won't respect them post marriage and it can also mean that he's immature about relationships.
on Apr 27, 2014 , 01:28 am
New Waves
the boy who can slap your brother in front of all people can also slap you one day be aware the boyfriend never thinks about your family members and just using you like a chewing gum and will throw when it lost it's flavor !!! these kind of boys usually have connection with more girls it will be better for you to dump that boy or else become the victim and bear his child and suffer his beating for the rest of your life
on Jul 21, 2013 , 08:13 am
Shashikanth Balepura
You are caught in a catch 22 situation, you have a sister who has come from her hostel and she is not talking to you, and you have a brother who seems to be little anxious about your life and ended up getting slapped and that too in public, not a good situation, first talk to your brother and tell him about your boy friend, his likes and dislikes etc., u need to be frank about your dating also, otherwise your brother can spell venom to your parents, if this boyfriend of yours is really good and you do not want to miss him, u need to have a face to face meeting with your brother, have a coffee, spill out the venom and try to make them friends, but at the same time, u also need to see your brother's view, why he hates your boyfriend. All said is not that easy like i have written, but worth trying.
on Jul 05, 2013 , 11:50 pm
Ankkit Bhanja
loda lele kutiya
on Jan 25, 2013 , 12:30 am
talk to both and get both of them together and all three talk and clear everything as both are important to you.
on Jan 24, 2013 , 10:58 am
Shoeb Yusuf
well i go wid u for the ppl wo have commented on ur post... feel sorry for them. tell me who means more to u, ur brother or ur bf? ur bf may leave u some day for another person but ur brother will be there wid u. u have blood relaionship wid u bro.. wid ur bf u might b having a few yrs relationship at the max. its upto u for wat u do.make sure u dnt repent later
on Jan 22, 2013 , 12:41 pm
Dasarath Ramm
After a certain age girl/woman thinks more about his men,even now your mind wants to live with your bf. So,carry on with what your mind says.One can just give you suggestion but no one is enough to understand your soul.
on Jan 21, 2013 , 10:26 am
Chetan Patwa
not worried actually no any brother want to see her sister with her boyfriend.your brother's think that u r going a wrong way so smile and carry on with ur life.
on Jan 20, 2013 , 06:08 pm
Dhruv Biswas
You should talk it out at both fronts....
on Jan 20, 2013 , 01:14 pm
Yakob Joseph
Slapped your brother and what should you do? Leave him before he does that to you!
on Jan 19, 2013 , 09:16 pm
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