They say you marry a man who is like your father. In my case i married a guy who was in the army just like my father. But the similarities end there. My father would never dream of doing what my husband has done. He asked me to be part of a wife swapping party just to get a promotion.
Yes it happens. Wife swapping is a dirty secret that exists among army officers. Some do it willingly and some do it because they are forced into it by their immediate seniors.
My husband threatened me that he would divorce me if i did not attend these wife swapping parties. I had no choice but to go ahead and agree to have sex with my husband's boss. I do not want a divorce for the sake of my son. Having him grow up without his father is something i am not willing to live with.
These parties are very secret and no one opens their mouth about it.
They meet once a month at a secret location. Everyone was invited through SMS which just give the date, time and location. So far 6 couples are part of this wife swapping game and they were looking to expand. But are willing to let only reliable people enter the group.
We reached the place, it was a farmhouse in Delhi. Initially we started talking, all of us. There was also alcohol provided to make us relax. Then each man is required to drop their car keys in a bowl. Then each lady has to pick up any random key from the bowl. The key she picks up decides her sex partner for the night.
You can choose to have sex inside rooms or in front of everyone else. After the keys were selected, I watched in shock as they started having physical relations with each other's husbands and wives.
Watching group sex can be shocking to say the least. I felt like it was not real. Initially it felt wrong and strange having sex with another man. But then i realised it's just sex and not love. I still only loved my husband.
Now i feel its a part of my life that i am OK with. It's a small price to pay to save my marriage. If my husband is happy so am I.