Commitment-phobic Indian men

on Apr 08, 2013 , 02:53 pm
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What is it with Indian men and commitment? I have yet to come across a desi bugger who whole-heartedly commits to his girlfriend. It's a sad reality in India but men often fool around with innumerable girls but eventually marry the ones their mother chooses for them.

Let me sight a real life example for you. My friend had been dating this guy for over 4 years. They were extremely happy together (or so they seemed) and wanted to get married. Unfortunately, the villain here was played by none other than the boy's very own mother. She tried to talk off the entire marriage situation with her son, and told him that she will die if he marries his girlfriend. So what did the guy do? Well, the guy played along and broke up with the girl who he was dating for over 4 years. Why can't Indian men stand up for what they want in life?

I understand that Indian men are their mama's preachers. But why is it that all of their life decisions have to be cross-checked and counter attacked by their mothers?

I don't understand why it is so difficult for mothers in India to let go off their sons.

I mean, I have seen such situations a number of times. A mother sticks to her son even after marriage and interferes in his personal matters.

I mean hello? How disgusting is that? And anytime a woman breaks her silence and tries to put her foot down, the entire daughter-in-law - mother-in-law drama gets staged.

Well, someone has to put a stop to this recurring nonsense and I guess that has to be ME. So, this is an open letter to all 'emotionally-driven Indian males'. It is time to take a stance and GROW UP.

It is your life, take control of it. Stand up for your actions. You don't need any approval or a nod from your mothers for everything.

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