All men are cheaters!
You must have heard the term "all men are dogs". Well i'm beginning to realize that it's true after all. I've seen my male friends cheat on their girlfriends. Husbands cheating on their wives. Office colleagues having extra marital affairs with other colleagues. And all this from men who are middle class and normal.
Contrary to popular perception extra marital affairs and open relationships don't just happen with a certain class. Most people think it's the rich who have the luxury to indulge in such time pass. So called devoted husbands who believe in looking after their wives and sharing responsibility at home too cheat! In fact this is real life example, my colleague who used to come late to work everyday has now started coming in as early as 8 am! All because he is having an affair with a 25 year old hottie! He would never walk in before 11 am before that! The office love birds even stick to each other on the pretext of work. And i bet the guy's wife thinks he is the world's best husband!
While some men cheat on their partners by having sex with other women, cheating is not always physical. It's mental most of the time. It can even be online flirting or even spending excessive time in the company of other women. Some couples will make excuses for it by saying it gives them space to have a better relationship. Really? I call it De-NIAL! And no it's not a river in Egypt! Even i have had my friend's boyfriends hitting on me. A friend of mine was in a live in relationship with her boyfriend for 5 years. I knew them for only a few months before they had trouble in their relationship. She found out that her boyfriend had taken "official trips" with a female colleague. Heart broken, she threw him out of their house. Guess what? The next thing i know is the guy is calling me up to ask if he can stay at my place! So much for loyalty! The best advice on men can only come from another man. My best friend is a man and had it not been for him, I would have been in similar dysfunctional relationships many times. He says it's all a question of men getting a chance to cheat. Some do, some don't. It's all a question of chance pe dance!