A girl's Dream!!!

on Apr 30, 2013 , 04:40 pm
When I grew up as a girl...I was more of an adventurous type.I played boys games...always ready to take challenges.Never said,"How can I do this ?.My first ambition as a child was to become an air force pilot,but little i realized that I was a girl.I was a very happy go lucky girl...always flying high...very positive in life.I never ever bothered about anything....always dreaming high.
But is it that easy for a girl to achieve her dreams???Can she do whatever she wants???Is it bad for her to be career oriented???For some rebellions the answer may be a YES...but for me it was a NO.
I was a meritorious student...excelling in all my subjects.I wanted to become successful like my brother...I was just at the start of my career...then I was told that I am a girl!!
For most of the parents in the Asian community,priority lies in getting daughters married as soon as possible that to an NRI...and at this point shattering of a girl's dream starts!!
Neha Singh
It all depends on ur fly. My fly never made me feel bad for being a 'girl'. These wrong values spread in society, and wrong ppl are punished for doing the right thing..
on May 12, 2013 , 07:39 pm
Afifa Shomail
Its a fact. and I support it. I too have same story. But learned my lesson hard way round. Parents are always right. They know very well the form of society they have selected to live. And have to follow their demands as per social economical point of views. But at the end of the day if your lucky enough than you will have the ability to pursuer your career even after marriage.
on May 11, 2013 , 11:48 am
Neelam Nath
early realisation,lucky you..your people were not fed by your hard earned money,made to do menial jobs as well, compared to your good for nothing brother,who would make you feel-you are a woman,this is your destiny-take it or leave it..this is the chorus sung by entire clan in unison...think for the better options before facing more traumas..
on May 01, 2013 , 04:03 pm
Neetole Mitra
You should have fought for it. Besides, You life isn't over. Work on some other dream. The point is to have fun right? Maybe that's why Indian girls end up with broken dreams. They give up too easily.
on May 01, 2013 , 03:22 pm
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